Out Here Tryna Survive
Out Here Tryna Survive is a trauma-informed, reflective podcast centering the emotional lives, resilience, and humanity of Black women — especially those of us navigating midlife, healing, motherhood, and healing after survival.
Hosted by Grace Sandra — Mama, storyteller, advocate, and lifelong student of survival — this podcast explores what it feels like to live in a world that constantly demands our strength while offering little protection.
Through personal storytelling, cultural reflection, and nervous-system-aware conversations, each episode holds space for truth, grief, joy, rage, softness, and repair.
This is not a place for perfection or performance. It’s a place for us as Black women to exhale, feel seen, and remember ourselves.
We are braver than we believe ✨
Out Here Tryna Survive
Latest Episodes
Ep 53: The Real Problem isn't Being a Pick-Me. It's Self-Abandonment
A single line on a reality show can expose a lifetime of conditioning. After watching Love Island’s most explosive moments, we sit with the gut-punch of hearing someone plead to be chosen and ask the real question behind all the viral “pick me”...
Epi 52: I Almost Quit My Dream Because I Was In A Hormonal Crash
One glance at my Apple Podcasts stats had me ready to throw the whole dream away. I filmed a full “I’m quitting” rant, cried real tears, and convinced myself it was bravery and honesty when it was actually a crash: PMDD, perimenopause, and plai...
Ep 51: Banish The Fantasy Of Male Protection
Subscribe to my Substack: https://substack.com/@outheretrynasurviveGet the Out Here Tryna Survive Journal: https://stan.store/GraceSandraBusiness Inquiries: OutHereTrynaSurvive@gmail.comA man knows where you live, and sudde...
Ep 50: My 50 Best Lessons On Sex, Healing & Survival in my 50th Year!
Fifty lessons. Three themes. Zero sugarcoating. I’m celebrating a huge personal milestone with a rapid-fire list of what I’ve learned about sex, healing, and survival while rebuilding my life and learning to trust my body again.We start...
Ep 49 Stop Calling Teen Girls (& Brandy) Fast. On Wanya Morris' Grooming.
A grown ssa man can say something vile about Brandy on camera, and somehow the loudest anger still lands on the her. That’s the real story I can’t stop thinking about and it’s why I’m speaking on the resurfaced comments about Wanyye Morr...